The Day I Realised I’d Been Selling the Wrong Thing All Along

I still remember the look on his face.

A local hardware store owner — sleeves rolled up, dust on his boots, the kind of bloke who’d built half the suburb with his own hands — stood in front of me, proudly holding a brand‑new power drill like it was Excalibur.

“Look at this beauty,” he said. “Brushless motor. High torque. Lightweight. Lithium battery. Customers are gonna love it.”

He was glowing. The drill hummed. And yet… something felt off.

A woman nearby was browsing the same aisle. She wasn’t admiring torque. She wasn’t comparing RPM. She wasn’t even touching the drills.

She was staring at a photo frame in her trolley — a picture of her kids — and biting her lip like she wasn’t sure she could hang it straight.

That’s when it hit me.

She didn’t want a drill. She didn’t want a hole. She wanted a moment — a picture on the wall that made her house feel like home.

The store owner kept talking about features. She kept worrying about outcomes.

Two people. One product. Completely different worlds.

The Quiet Mistake Most Businesses Make

Once you see this mismatch, you can’t unsee it.

A mother buying a family car isn’t thinking about fuel injection systems. A tradie buying a drill isn’t thinking about “ergonomic polymer casing.” A homeowner isn’t thinking about torque curves.

People think about:

• Will this make my life easier

• Will this solve my problem

• Will this help me feel more confident, capable, or safe

The product is just the tool. The outcome is the prize.

The Moment Steve Jobs Proved the Point

When Steve Jobs launched the iPod, he could’ve bragged about storage capacity or processing power.

Instead, he said:

“A thousand songs in your pocket.”

Not the drill. Not the hole. The life the product made possible.

The Detective Work Behind Great Marketing

This idea — looking past the product and uncovering what the customer is really trying to achieve — is at the heart of my new book, The Case of the Missing Customer.

In it, I explore why so many businesses accidentally talk past their customers… and how to fix it by thinking like a detective instead of a salesperson.

But for now, here’s the simple truth:

Customers don’t buy what you sell. They buy what it does for them.

They buy the relief. The progress. The transformation. The story they want to live.

And once you start speaking to that, your marketing stops feeling like noise — and starts feeling like understanding.

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